222: Hints to Improve Digital Intimacy and Stay Sane (and Connected) during a Lockdown

222: Hints to Improve Digital Intimacy and Stay Sane (and Connected) during a Lockdown

Sometimes all it takes is a simple adjustment to create a much deeper connection with another person. Today I’ll offer you some obvious-but-not-so-obvious ways to foster intimacy – whether you’re cooped up with another, or connecting digitally. In this episode I’m also sharing some of the ways that I create deep presence when I’m using video chat to communicate. Strategies you can always use that will come in handy as we social distance to slow the coronavirus pandemic. Simple stuff, with big results.

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221: Love in the Time of Coronavirus – COVID19 and Relationships

221: Love in the Time of Coronavirus – COVID19 and Relationships

How is coronavirus (COVID-19) impacting you? What are the implications of “social distancing” on your relationship – especially if you're cooped up together for weeks at a time? Or if you're single, how can you still enjoy dating while staying safe? In this week's episode, you'll get some strategies for taking care of yourself amidst the epidemic, with practical advice for staying calm – connected – and HEALTHY – while we weather the storm…together. Plus a few (mostly relevant) thoughts on “Love in the Time of Cholera” by Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Sending so much love to you!

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220: Reclaiming (and Enjoying) Your Sexual Self – Taking Sexy Back with Alexandra Solomon

220: Reclaiming (and Enjoying) Your Sexual Self – Taking Sexy Back with Alexandra Solomon

What turns you on, and what turns you off? How do you get past the messages about sex that have been handed to you by others – to discover your own personal sexuality that emerges from within? How do you own your deepest desires – and then communicate them to your partner in a way that stands the best chance of having them be realized? In today’s episode, we’re having a return visit from Dr. Alexandra Solomon, author of the new book Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships You Want. Our conversation will help you take your intimacy to a whole new level, so that your relationships can be satisfying in and out of the bedroom.

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219: Your Questions Answered – More on Judgment and Grieving

219: Your Questions Answered – More on Judgment and Grieving

It can be easy to avoid being judgmental with people that aren’t close to you, but what do you do when you feel yourself getting critical or testing the people with whom you’re the most vulnerable? How do you shift from judging back to connection? How do you deal with the pain that you might uncover when you own the fears at the heart of being judgmental? And what are some realistic expectations to have around the process of grieving? In this week’s episode I answer YOUR questions as a followup to a few of our earlier episodes.

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218: Sacred Instructions – Indigenous Wisdom for Your Relationship – with Sherri Mitchell

218: Sacred Instructions – Indigenous Wisdom for Your Relationship – with Sherri Mitchell

How do we heal ourselves, our relationships, and the world we live in – all at once? How has our society created rifts within us (and between us) that get in the way of fulfilling relationships? With indigenous wisdom that has been handed down over thousands of years, today’s guest will help you heal the splits in your life and develop deeper integrity. Her name is Sherri Mitchell, and she is the author of “Sacred Instructions: Indigenous Wisdom for Living Spirit-Based Change”. A member of the Penobscot Nation, Sherri has also been actively involved with indigenous rights and environmental justice for more than 25 years. Instead of turning a blind eye to the ways that our cultural legacy gets in the way of connection and healing, today we will walk together down a practical path of truth, healing, and spirit.

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217: How to Heal after a Breakup

217: How to Heal after a Breakup

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How do you heal after a breakup or divorce? Whether you’re going through a breakup now, have been through a breakup and still have some cleanup work to do, or…well…maybe you will be going through a breakup at some point in the future…this episode is for you. No matter which way you slice it – the ending of a relationship can be challenging. There are a lot of “right” ways to heal your heart – and some wrong ways. My goal is to keep you from making common post-breakup mistakes so that you don’t make it any harder on yourself than it has to be – and we’ll dispel some myths along the way.

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216: Steering Clear of Judging Yourself and Others

216: Steering Clear of Judging Yourself and Others

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Do you judge others or yourself harshly? How do you get past the judgment to a place where you can see a situation clearly, set appropriate boundaries, and change things for the better? In this week’s episode, we’re going to cover what to do when your occasionally judgmental nature gets in the way of positive connections with others – or yourself. You’ll get some hints about what to do when others are judging you. And you’ll discover the difference between being discerning and being judgmental.

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215: Your Erotic Blueprint – The Work of Jaiya – with Ian Ferguson

215: Your Erotic Blueprint – The Work of Jaiya – with Ian Ferguson

What turns you on – and what turns you off? Once you know your erotic blueprint type, it’s so much easier to have the kind of intimacy that you most deeply desire.  And when you hit a snag in the sexual sphere of your relationship, it could be that you and your partner haven’t quite learned each other’s erotic languages – leading to sexual miscommunication. Never mind the love languages – it’s the Erotic Blueprint type that matters in the sexual domain! This week’s episode features Ian Ferguson, who played an instrumental role in creating the Erotic Blueprint methodology with his partner Jaiya. You’ll learn the 5 Erotic Blueprint types, how to figure out what you are, and how to tackle differences that you and your partner might have in how you express yourselves in your most intimate moments.

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214: Do Breakups Have To Be Messy?

214: Do Breakups Have To Be Messy?

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While some kind of issue is going to be at the heart of every breakup, how do you get past the issues and create a breakup that’s kind, generous, and respectful? How do you find compassion and understanding within the pain and grief? When it comes to conscious uncoupling, or divorce, are there ways to make the process easier on yourself and your soon-to-be-ex partner? In today’s episode we confront whether or not breaking up has to be a shitshow – or can it be something that’s easeful despite the pain that’s inherent in the process.

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213: How to Handle an Aching Heart – with Guy Finley

213: How to Handle an Aching Heart – with Guy Finley

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What do you do when you're suffering? How do you escape patterns of blaming in your relationship, and find the place within you that can turn painful moments into growth, and transformation? And how do you know when you've experienced too much pain – when it's time to move on? This week, we’re having a return visit with Guy Finley, author of the new book Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together and the international bestseller The Secret of Letting Go.

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