Relationship Alive and Thrive Community
Improve communication, resolve conflicts, and get past your inner blocks -
with weekly live coaching + community + courses
($37/month - that's only $1.23/day to have me in your corner!)
It doesn't have to be this hard.
Let me help you create the kind of deep connection and intimacy in your life that you're looking for. All while being able to stay true to who you are, at the core of your being.
We'll work together to remove your inner blocks and heal the relational traumas that keep you from moving forward. Plus you'll improve your ability to communicate, stay calm and well-resourced in stressful situations, and ask for what you want (in ways that increase your chances of getting it).
What are the results?
You'll feel even more solid on your own two feet, with clarity about your life and direction, and you'll feel connected to your gifts and inner resources.
It will be easier for you to have that difficult conversation and have it go somewhere positive. You'll feel more understood by others in your life. When things are challenging, you'll not only have extra support to keep you steady, but you'll also learn how to use those moments to truly make you more resilient.
And when things are going well, you'll know how to amplify your strengths to get even more momentum.
On some level, it's simple.
To get more of what you want you have to do more of the things that work. And less of the things that don't. And take action - consistently - in your life. It doesn't have to be BIG intimidating action (though sometimes you do need to be courageous). Most of the time, it's the little things that you do (or don't do) on a daily or weekly basis that add up to the life you want. Or the life you regret.
The challenge is knowing which little things to focus on, and having the support to stick with them when life gets complicated. That's why I created the Relationship Alive and Thrive Community - to give you both the clarity and the ongoing support you need, in a way that fits into your busy life.
Here's how we're going to work together:
The Foundation - Community (aka "You are not alone.")
$47 $37/month (Founding Member Rate - if you join by October 31st)
The core of Relationship Alive and Thrive is the community. There's nothing worse than feeling like you're alone in the world - either alone in your struggles (or alone when you're celebrating). So I've created a space where we can come together weekly, for about 90 minutes, to get centered and receive targeted coaching around the things that are relevant for you - now.
What you get:
- Answers for your exact situation with weekly live group coaching sessions (90 minutes)
- Support between group sessions with a members-only community forum
- Skills on demand with access to ALL my current courses:
- Chaos to Connected (foundational Emotional Resilience course)
- Regulate to Communicate (co-taught with Peter Levine)
- Secrets of Communication course
- Cancel anytime
It was important to me that you have resources accessible at a reasonable price. You can lock in this lifetime rate by joining before October 31st (price will be going up after that).
What Current Members Are Saying:
The support I need - and the joy of helping others
"Neil does an amazing job of creating a safe space, where I can be supported AND support others."Â - D.C. (member 3 months)
Targeted help with communication - each step of the way
"We joined the Relationship Alive community looking for support in making sense of our negative patterns and for a way through them to a place where we felt more openness, love, compassion and connection.Â
With Neil, the course (From Chaos to Connection) and the community we have found a safe place to understand, learn and most importantly, feel that we are not alone. The courses have given us new tools and the group coaching calls enable us to share our experiences with Neil and other members - for us this is really valuable because we get to look at what’s happening, receive advice and adjust where we need to. We also get to celebrate all our small victories!
Creating and sustaining warm, exciting and loving relationships is a journey and Neil’s community is what we were looking for to support us."
- U and S (group members for 5 months)
An outside perspective makes all the difference...
"How else can we realize that the map we have of the world isn't working? Neil knows how to gently point out my blind spots and help me see new possibilities. I didn't even know I was trapped in black and white thinking - and now I feel so much more confident in situations that would have shut me down before."Â - Anonymous (member 5 months)
Was nervous...now taking courageous risks and making so much progress...
"I was very nervous, because I had never done coaching and didn't know what to expect. But I had nothing to worry about! Neil is really great at facilitating, encouraging, and holding space for each person, which made me feel really supported and at ease. Others in the group were very supportive as well! I was quite impressed with Neil's ability to be intuitive and compassionate when interacting with me. I appreciated his patience and support with my topic, and felt like he knew just what I needed to hear and focus on. I have since become a regular coaching client. That, and the courses he has thoughtfully put together have been helping me so much!! Thank you Neil!" - K.B. (member for 5 months)
You deserve support.
You deserve to be supported through your challenges in ways that empower you. And you deserve to be celebrated when things are going well.
It's important to me, as part of my mission, to make that happen for you.
The work that we've been doing in the Relationship Alive and Thrive Community is POWERFUL. It's been exciting to witness everyone changing, and growing, and sharing in their successes. And supporting each other through the challenging times. That's what being part of a community is all about.
The Founder's Rate expires October 31st. It's a significant discount for a reason - I want to make it easy for you to say "yes" to getting the kind of support that can really make a difference in your life.
Please take this opportunity to invest in yourself, and your relationship if you have one (or your future relationship if you want one).
Join me, join us, in the Relationship Alive and Thrive Community.
$47
$37 Monthly
special lifetime rate
for Founding Members
for Founding Members
✓ Get YOUR questions answered and specific guidance from me in our weekly live group coaching sessions
✓ Practice communication about challenging things while I help you adjust to be more effective
✓ Access to ALL my current and future courses at no additional cost during membership
✓ Discuss with other members in our private, members-only community forum
✓ Connect with a supportive community of like-minded people on similar journeys
✓ Cancel anytime - no long-term commitment required
Send me an email at neilius at neilsattin dot com and we'll figure out something customized for you.
FAQs
What is the time commitment?
It's completely flexible. The weekly coaching calls are generally on Thursdays, and last 60-90 minutes. One week the call is held at 12pm Eastern US time, then next week it's at 8pm US Eastern time. You can engage as much or as little as your schedule allows! Some people come just about every week, others drop in as needed.Â
All of the courses that you have access to are self-paced - so you can proceed at a pace that's comfortable for you.
How private is the group?
The community forum is secured with your own password in our members area. Only current Relationship Alive and Thrive members are welcome to the weekly group coaching sessions. It's important to me to create a safe space, and that's important to the other community members as well. Group coaching sessions are NOT recorded, so everything that happens in the zoom room stays in the zoom room.
I'm not sure I'm comfortable with group coaching…can I still benefit from being a member of the community?
Yes! You still have access to all the courses, and the community forum. And many of the existing group members have mentioned just how powerful it is for them to show up to the group coaching sessions in support of the other group members (as witness). To see other people having breakthrough moments. Everyone is learning from each other all the time. Several people waited weeks until they felt comfortable enough to get some coaching from me. Some people don't come to any of the coaching sessions. It's all up to you!
I'm mainly interested in the courses. Will the membership still be valuable?
Absolutely! As a member, you get access to all Relationship Alive course content. The membership also provides ongoing support specifically for implementing these skills in your life and connection to other people who have prioritized these skills in their life. The group coaching is there for you if you need additional support or specific advice. Have a question about something in one of the courses? Come to a group coaching session and get your question answered live, by me!
What if I'm not in a relationship?
I'm happy to give you the support that you need for whatever you're trying to accomplish in your life. And, because so much of life is relational, you'll grow and thrive in ALL your relationships with others.
What if my partner isn't interested/won't participate?
There's a LOT of leverage that you can have in your relationship just by changing what you do and how you show up. As you change the moves of the dance - the other person has no choice but to change. And you'll have my expert guidance and support for how to meet those moments with a partner (or ANY other relationship in your life) so that they're most likely to go well. I've spent decades developing habits of communication to help in even the most intense situation. Let my experience (and the way that I've grown from my many failures) benefit you!
And, sometimes, reluctant partner start to notice the changes - and want some of that for themselves. They're welcome to join too at any time.
Can I cancel or get a refund?
You can cancel at any time. I cannot offer a refund for payments made. However, if you sign up for the annual option, I can offer a pro-rated refund for the time that you haven't yet used, with the months that you have used billed at the current monthly rate.
Is there a guarantee?
Here's what I can guarantee - I will be 100% there for you in our time together. If you show up, put in the time and energy, then you will become more confident and clear in how live your life. You'll understand yourself better than ever, and be able to make big decisions, and take courageous risks. You'll experience getting past challenges that have held you back. I can't guarantee what your outcomes will be - or that you won't have more challenges - but your ability to be resilient in the face of whatever life and love throws your way will grow and grow.
This sounds too good to be true. Why is it so inexpensive?
My business advisors have said the same thing. But, here's the reality. I have high-ticket offerings. If someone wants weekly intensive sessions - we can do that - but it's not something that everyone can afford. My goal is to create a community that's affordable so that just about anyone could show up, get the support they need, and be included in creating a web of support for others. To feel connected to others who are having similar struggles. To see other people strive and succeed - and to be witnessed by others. Obviously the more people that we get in the group, the more sustainable it becomes for me to keep it going. That's just economics. But as long as I know that I can keep the lights on here at Relationship Alive headquarters, I can be focused on ensuring that all my offerings - including the Relationship Alive and Thrive Community, are the best that they can possibly be for you.
How is this different from therapy?
I'm a coach, not a therapist. I draw on my trainings in coaching, other healing modalities, 30 years of research, and more than 15 years of coaching others (learning what works and what doesn't) to help create a custom approach with you, in the moment, to the best of my abilities. If we come up on something that's more suited to working with a therapist - I'll let you know. It makes sense to have a broad web of support for yourself (and I have been supported by both coaches and therapists over the years).
The group coaching environment is, by its nature, quicker. I do my best to ensure that I can work with as many people as possible in each weekly session - while balancing that with allowing time to ensure each person that I work with gets what they need in that moment. My private sessions allow us to go deeper and spend more time on your specific issues.
While coaching is different from therapy, I have heard from MANY past clients that they got more out of our time together than years of therapy. My goal is to create a safe space, figure out what YOU need to overcome your obstacles, and to bring all of my expertise and resources to bear in order to help you make progress.
In the end, it's up to you to do the work. To be courageous. To take the risk. And I'm going to be there with you, cheering you on, and ensuring that you have the support you need to do just that.
If you have other questions, please email me directly at neilius [at] neilsattin [dot] com – happy to help out!
Why listen to me?
I'm Neil Sattin, and for the past 15+ years I've been helping people navigate the most challenging moments in their relationships - the conversations that used to end in slammed doors or days of silence.
I host the Relationship Alive podcast, where I've interviewed over 100 of the world's leading relationship and healing experts - from John and Julie Gottman (Gottman method) to Sue Johnson (creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy), from Steve Porges (Polyvagal Theory) to Peter Levine (creator of Somatic Experiencing), from Harriet Lerner (Dance of Anger) to Richard Schwartz (Internal Family Systems).
I don't just interview them - I learn from them, test what works, and bring those insights directly into my coaching.
But here's what matters more: I've spent 15+ years in the trenches with real couples and individuals, learning what actually works when you're in the middle of a difficult conversation and your nervous system is hijacked. When you're having trouble being heard. When you feel like you couldn't be further from getting what you want. When you're trying to find a deep connection, and coming up empty.
I've been there. And I know how painful it can be. That's why my interventions are structured to help you quickly build your resilience, courage, and sense of security - so you can get clear on what you want, and experience getting it in a way that connects you to the people in your world.
I'm a coach, not a therapist, which means our work together is focused, practical, and action-oriented. We identify what's keeping you stuck, and I give you specific tools to move forward. Many of my clients tell me they got more from our work together than years of traditional therapy.
You don't need your partner to participate to see results. When you change how you show up, the dynamic has to shift. I'll show you exactly how to do that.
The group coaching format works because you learn as much from witnessing others' breakthroughs as from your own. Every session is confidential, nothing is recorded, and the community consistently tells me how safe and supportive the space feels.
My goal isn't just to help you get through this rough patch. It's to give you skills that make you stronger in every challenging moment that comes after.
JOIN US IN THE COMMUNITY!
(You don't have to do it alone.)
$47
$37 Monthly
special lifetime rate
for Founding Members
for Founding Members
Weekly coaching + community + all courses.
Instant Access.
Cancel anytime.
Founders rate ends Oct 31.
Join for $37/mo
Send me an email at neilius at neilsattin dot com and we'll figure out something customized for you.