We'll work together to remove your inner blocks and heal the relational traumas that keep you from moving forward. Plus you'll improve your ability to communicate, stay calm and well-resourced in stressful situations, and ask for what you want (in ways that increase your chances of getting it).

What are the results?

You'll feel even more solid on your own two feet, with clarity about your life and direction, and you'll feel connected to your gifts and inner resources.

It will be easier for you to have that difficult conversation and have it go somewhere positive. You'll feel more understood by others in your life. When things are challenging, you'll not only have extra support to keep you steady, but you'll also learn how to use those moments to truly make you more resilient.

And when things are going well, you'll know how to amplify your strengths to get even more momentum.

To get more of what you want you have to do more of the things that work. And less of the things that don't. And take action - consistently - in your life. It doesn't have to be BIG intimidating action (though sometimes you do need to be courageous). Most of the time, it's the little things that you do (or don't do) on a daily or weekly basis that add up to the life you want. Or the life you regret.

The challenge is knowing which little things to focus on, and having the support to stick with them when life gets complicated. That's why I created the Relationship Alive and Thrive Community - to give you both the clarity and the ongoing support you need, in a way that fits into your busy life.

$67 $37/month (Founding Member Rate - if you join by October 31st)

The core of Relationship Alive and Thrive is the community. There's nothing worse than feeling like you're alone in the world - either alone in your struggles (or alone when you're celebrating). So I've created a space where we can come together weekly, for about 90 minutes, to get centered and receive targeted coaching around the things that are relevant for you - now.

What you get:

• Answers for your exact situation with weekly live group coaching sessions (90 minutes)
• Support between group sessions with a members-only community forum
• Skills on demand with access to ALL my current courses:
  • Chaos to Connected (foundational Emotional Resilience course)
  • Regulate to Communicate (co-taught with Peter Levine)
  • Secrets of Communication course
• Cancel anytime

It was important to me that you have resources accessible at a reasonable price. You can lock in this lifetime rate by joining before October 31st (price will be going up after that).

$297 $247/month (Founding Member Rate if you join by October 31st)

Everything in Option 1, PLUS:

Along with the weekly group coaching, you'll get regular support that's tailored specifically to you. The weekly group coaching allows me to go deep with several group members each week (and there's SO MUCH to be learned from witnessing and supporting others).

But what if you have something going on and want to ensure that you get support NOW?

Here's how it works:

• Initial detailed questionnaire to help me understand your situation
• I'll respond with a voice memo to get you started on the right foot
• Every Friday, you get 3 focused questions via email
• Respond in 15 minutes or less (though you can take longer if needed)
• By end of day Monday, I respond with targeted feedback and suggestions for the week
• All responses come FROM ME - no AI

Remember - it's the little things you do, and don't do, every week that matter. Space is limited for this option.

$547 $497/month (Founding Member Rate if you join by October 31st)

Everything in Options 1 & 2, PLUS:

While the ongoing email dialogue and weekly group sessions provide excellent support, sometimes you need the guarantee of dedicated time to dive deep. Each month we'll tackle your biggest obstacles, and do the real work required to overcome them - together. And we'll get even more clear on your strengths and how to amplify them for even better results.

What you get:

• Monthly private 90-minute Zoom session (just you, or you and your partner)
• Enough time to catch up, identify what needs work, and immerse ourselves in it
• No rushed sessions - we take the time needed for real breakthroughs

Don't you just hate short sessions where you just start getting into something and then…time's up? Me too. That's why the minimum sessions I do now are 90 minutes.

(This represents a $50 discount off my usual hourly rate of $297 for 90-minute sessions)

The support I need - and the joy of helping others

"Neil does an amazing job of creating a safe space, where I can be supported AND support others." - D.C. (member 3 months)

Targeted help with communication - each step of the way

"We joined the Relationship Alive community looking for support in making sense of our negative patterns and for a way through them to a place where we felt more openness, love, compassion and connection. 

Targeted help with communication - each step of the way

"It's amazing to have Neil guiding us through our communication with each other. He knows exactly how to point out the subtle ways we get off track - and has been giving us an opportunity to practice new habits with his help and support." - U and S (group members for 5 months)

An outside perspective makes all the difference...

"How else can we realize that the map we have of the world isn't working? Neil knows how to gently point out my blind spots and help me see new possibilities. I didn't even know I was trapped in black and white thinking - and now I feel so much more confident in situations that would have shut me down before." - Anonymous (member 5 months)

Was nervous...now taking courageous risks and making so much progress...

"I was very nervous, because I had never done coaching and didn't know what to expect. But I had nothing to worry about! Neil is really great at facilitating, encouraging, and holding space for each person, which made me feel really supported and at ease. Others in the group were very supportive as well! I was quite impressed with Neil's ability to be intuitive and compassionate when interacting with me. I appreciated his patience and support with my topic, and felt like he knew just what I needed to hear and focus on. I have since become a regular coaching client. That, and the courses he has thoughtfully put together have been helping me so much!! Thank you Neil!" - K.B. (member for 5 months)

You deserve to be supported through your challenges in ways that empower you. And you deserve to be celebrated when things are going well.

It's important to me, as part of my mission, to make that happen for you.

The work that we've been doing in the Relationship Alive and Thrive Community is POWERFUL. It's been exciting to witness everyone changing, and growing, and sharing in their successes. And supporting each other through the challenging times. That's what being part of a community is all about.

The Founder's Rate expires October 31st. It's a significant discount for a reason - I want to make it easy for you to say "yes" to getting kind of support that can really make a difference in your life.

Please take this opportunity to invest in yourself, and your relationship if you have one (or your future relationship if you want one).

Option 3:

PLUS Monthly Private Coaching Session (with Neil)

If you have other questions, please email me directly at neilius [at] neilsattin [dot] com – happy to help out!

Option 3:

PLUS Monthly Private Coaching Session (with Neil)