If you're here, you probably already know me - from the podcast, from an email, from a course, or from someone who recommended me.

So I'll keep this simple.

I work with couples and individuals. If you feel like what you're going through is impossibly challenging - that's ok, no judgment here. Most of my clients felt that way, and then we found our way through conflict, triggers, and disconnection to someplace that feels a LOT better.

Our time together

I'll help you see the patterns that are keeping you stuck, and we'll get to the heart of the dynamics that keep those patterns going. Then you'll get practice doing things differently, and build something new. Whether that's in your relationship, in how you navigate your own inner world, or both.

I draw upon a deep skillset, and more than 15 years of coaching experience, to find just the right thing to help you in this particular moment. While there are some patterns that are universal, there are other things that will be unique to you - and it's important to me to tailor my approach (instead of being stuck in one particular model). And as you grow and evolve - so will our work together.

Initial sessions are 2 hours, on Zoom. That's enough time to go deep, for everyone to be heard, and to leave with something tangible - not just a recap of the problem. As we go, we can adjust the time to ensure that what we're doing fits for your goals and your budget.

For couples, that usually means 4-8 two-hour sessions, and then scaling back to 90 minutes once you're in a better place.

For individuals, we may do 1 or 2 more two-hour sessions, and then we can scale back to 60-90 minute sessions, whatever feels more appropriate for your situation.

IF WE'RE WORKING ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP, MY PREFERENCE IS FOR BOTH PEOPLE TO BE THERE (though I recognize that's not always possible - and if I'm working with just you, we'll figure out the places where you have the most leverage to effect change in your relationship).

"I don't write a review unless I truly mean it....I definitely do in this case.

My wife discovered Neil Sattin after listening to his podcast Relationship Alive. She loved the content and appreciated his soothing voice. Soon we found ourselves taking a relationship course that Neil offered and found it incredibly beneficial for our marriage. However, we still needed something more to get over the hump of our relationship issues. Soon enough, we began seeing Neil virtually periodically when we were having difficulties. Eventually, our periodic sessions turned into regularly scheduled maintenance sessions.

We have seen several different relationship therapists throughout our 7-year marriage. None of them has compared to coaching with Neil. His insight, patience (with me), caring and compassionate manner with which he guides us is unrivaled. He truly is an amazing resource for our marriage and he continues to help us grow together.

Neil has changed our relationship and created a stronger union between my wife and I. We look forward to our maintenance sessions with Neil and we always come away closer and more in touch with each other. He has an amazing ability to look through the issue and help us see the root cause. He teaches us to turn towards each other and understand where we are at that moment and to see each other in a different light.

I recommend Neil Sattin to anyone who is dealing with difficulties in their relationship. We are fortunate to have such an amazing individual in our lives to guide us through the ups and downs of our relationship. He truly is the best thing that happened to us and we cherish his guidance and wisdom.

R & N - Arizona, USA

"We joined the Relationship Alive group coaching community looking for support in making sense of our negative patterns and for a way through them to a place where we felt more openness, love, compassion and connection. 

With Neil's coaching, we have found a safe place to understand, learn and most importantly, feel that we are not alone. Neil has guided us through some of our most difficult communication challenges - and being able to practice in the moment, and make adjustments, has been HUGE. We also get to celebrate all our small victories!

Creating and sustaining warm, exciting and loving relationships is a journey and Neil’s community is what we were looking for to support us."

- U and S (group coaching members since 2025)

"I was very nervous, because I had never done coaching and didn't know what to expect. But I had nothing to worry about! Neil is really great at facilitating, encouraging, and holding space for each person, which made me feel really supported and at ease....I was quite impressed with Neil's ability to be intuitive and compassionate when interacting with me. I appreciated his patience and support with my topic, and felt like he knew just what I needed to hear and focus on. I have since become a regular coaching client. That, and the courses he has thoughtfully put together have been helping me so much!! Thank you Neil!" - K.B.