It's completely flexible. The weekly coaching calls are generally on Thursdays, and last 60-90 minutes. One week the call is held at 12pm Eastern US time, then next week it's at 8pm US Eastern time. You can engage as much or as little as your schedule allows! Some people come just about every week, others drop in as needed. 

All of the courses that you have access to are self-paced - so you can proceed at a pace that's comfortable for you.

Only current Relationship Alive and Thrive members are welcome to the weekly group coaching sessions. It's important to me to create a safe space, and that's important to the other community members as well. Group coaching sessions are NOT recorded, so everything that happens in the zoom room stays in the zoom room. The community forum is secured with your own password in our members area. 

Yes. At the beginning of each 90-minute session, I get a sense of how many people would like direct support, and a level of urgency. If YOU have something that you'd like to work through, I will make it my goal to make that happen. 

And, because we have a session every week, there's never too much time before the next session is rolling around. So far, group members have been quite courteous in ensuring that people who are most in need are able to get some coaching, and my mission is to create space for whoever needs it.

Additionally, you're learning from watching others work through similar issues. There have been many times when someone says "you know, I had a thing that I wanted to work on, but what you just did with this other person addressed my situation perfectly." Or we spend a few extra minutes in case there are any specifics that we need to cover.

Plus you have the community forum for questions between calls.

If you need more intensive support, then I can make space in my schedule for more private work. Many of the group members also do one-on-one (or one-on-two, in the case of couples) sessions as well.

Yes! You still have access to all the courses, and the community forum. And many of the existing group members have mentioned just how powerful it is for them to show up to the group coaching sessions in support of the other group members (as witness). To see other people having breakthrough moments. Everyone is learning from each other all the time. Several people waited weeks until they felt comfortable enough to get some coaching from me. Some people don't come to any of the coaching sessions. It's all up to you!

Absolutely! As a member, you get access to all Relationship Alive course content. The membership also provides ongoing support specifically for implementing these skills in your life and connection to other people who have prioritized these skills in their life. The group coaching is there for you if you need additional support or specific advice. Have a question about something in one of the courses? Come to a group coaching session and get your question answered live, by me!

I'm happy to give you the support that you need for whatever you're trying to accomplish in your life. And, because so much of life is relational, you'll grow and thrive in ALL your relationships with others.

There's a LOT of leverage that you can have in your relationship just by changing what you do and how you show up. As you change the moves of the dance - the other person has no choice but to change. And you'll have my expert guidance and support for how to meet those moments with a partner (or ANY other relationship in your life) so that they're most likely to go well. I've spent decades developing habits of communication to help in even the most intense situation. Let my experience (and the way that I've grown from my many failures) benefit you!

And, sometimes, reluctant partner start to notice the changes - and want some of that for themselves. They're welcome to join too at any time.

You can cancel at any time, and that will end any future payments. If you cancel a monthly subscription, you will have access to all courses, coaching, and the community forum through the end of the current month.

If you cancel an annual subscription, then you will have access to courses, coaching, and community through the anniversary of your subscription date.

There are no refunds for payments made. 

Here's what I can guarantee - I will be 100% there for you in our time together. If you show up, put in the time and energy, then you will become more confident and clear in how live your life. You'll understand yourself better than ever, and be able to make big decisions, and take courageous risks. You'll experience getting past challenges that have held you back. I can't guarantee what your outcomes will be - or that you won't have more challenges - but your ability to be resilient in the face of whatever life and love throws your way will grow and grow.

My business advisors have said the same thing. But, here's the reality. I have high-ticket offerings. If someone wants weekly intensive sessions - we can do that - but it's not something that everyone can afford. My goal is to create a community that's affordable so that just about anyone could show up, get the support they need, and be included in creating a web of support for others. To feel connected to others who are having similar struggles. To see other people strive and succeed - and to be witnessed by others. Obviously the more people that we get in the group, the more sustainable it becomes for me to keep it going. That's just economics. But as long as I know that I can keep the lights on here at Relationship Alive headquarters, I can be focused on ensuring that all my offerings - including the Relationship Alive and Thrive Community, are the best that they can possibly be for you.

I'm a coach, not a therapist. I draw on my trainings in coaching, other healing modalities, 30 years of research, and more than 15 years of coaching others (learning what works and what doesn't) to help create a custom approach with you, in the moment, to the best of my abilities. If we come up on something that's more suited to working with a therapist - I'll let you know. It makes sense to have a broad web of support for yourself (and I have been supported by both coaches and therapists over the years).

The group coaching environment is, by its nature, quicker. I do my best to ensure that I can work with as many people as possible in each weekly session - while balancing that with allowing time to ensure each person that I work with gets what they need in that moment. My private sessions allow us to go deeper and spend more time on your specific issues.

While coaching is different from therapy, I have heard from MANY past clients that they got more out of our time together than years of therapy. My goal is to create a safe space, figure out what YOU need to overcome your obstacles, and to bring all of my expertise and resources to bear in order to help you make progress.

In the end, it's up to you to do the work. To be courageous. To take the risk. And I'm going to be there with you, cheering you on, and ensuring that you have the support you need to do just that.