Create a Birthday Book and Get Some Perspective

February 5th, 2008 by neil

As I mentioned in my last post (the Birthday Giveaway), my birthday is fast approaching. A couple of years ago, in a quest to gain some perspective on the life I’ve been living, I decided to start a “Birthday Book”. As you know, I’m very fond of journaling, but I was looking for an easy way to keep tabs on myself without having to thumb through pages and pages of old journals. Enter the Birthday Book.

The Birthday Book is a special journal, in which I only write on (or around) my birthday each year. I try to cover the important happenings of the past year, my mood, my current goals, the things that inspire me, and the things that terrify me. I also discuss the people who are significant in my life at this time (how interesting it is to see that change over the years), and, finally, I talk about what I think might be in store for the coming year with as vivid an intention as I can muster. There’s a lot to chronicle, but I keep it manageable by limiting the length to one page (front and back).

neil sattin’s birthday book journal

I also only read it once each year, as my birthday approaches. Re-reading what I’ve written allows me the chance to reflect back over what I thought my life might be like – and compare notes with what actually happened. It’s also a great way to review my successes (and less-than-successes) of the past, to see how I’ve been growing, over time, with additional experience. I look forward to having 10 or 20 years of entries to read, although even a couple of years offers me quite a bit of perspective.

It’s like I’m writing my own personal Cliffs Notes. You know – so that those who care to know after I’ve died (but who don’t care enough to know every detail as captured in my journals) will have a place to look for a simple overview. Perhaps I’ll even include a handy pie chart or bar graph once the yearly sample gets a little larger (any suggestions for what such visual representations could represent?). I haven’t gotten so far as to write an epitaph yet, but I have written a couple versions of my obituary. Purely hypothetical of course. And I’m getting off-topic. Sorry about that. How did that happen? Ah yes, I guess I was talking about summarizing my life. Back on track.

neil sattin’s cliffs notes

The best part is that the commitment required to get some serious insight into your life is minimal. Set aside an hour ONCE PER YEAR to write in your Birthday Book. Then forget about it. Of course over time it’ll take longer and longer to read through your previous entries, but the time that you’ll have available to read increases the older you get, right? Well…there’s always hoping! Or Photoreading. Just make sure that you reserve a spot on your bookshelf for your Birthday Book so that you don’t have to go hunting for it each time your birthday rolls around. Along with your own perspective, you’ll also earn the gratitude of all the future test-takers who are being quizzed on the subject of YOU – and who need an efficient way to cram for the exam the night before.

note – this blog entry is in no way meant to endorse Cliffs Notes as a method of achieving academic success, even if they did work perfectly fine (on occasion) for the author

One final note: I happened to see this illustration on the back of a Qtips cotton swab box, illustrating all of the uses for Qtips (click it for a closeup):

all the uses for qtips

Now let’s talk about this for just a minute. Not only is my preferred (and, you might say, only) use for Qtips not illustrated, I’m not sure that I’d use a Qtip for ANY of these proposed tasks.

  1. Illustration #1 – Brushing eyebrows. On second thought, maybe I would use a Qtip for that. Though I prefer a comb.
  2. Illustration #2 – Typing. I don’t know about you, but I prefer using at least the index fingers of both hands, if not all 10 of my digits.
  3. Illustration #3 – Cleaning a baby’s face. Unless that Qtip has a fresh booger on it, it’s of no use to me. Judging by the stunned look on that baby’s face, I imagine that he’s thinking “um, that Qtip is way too big for what you’re about to do, right…mommy…mommy!?!?!”
  4. Illustration #4 – I pity the person who’s decided to use a Qtip to clean our bathroom. What were you thinking?

That’s it, just had to share. ;)




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  • A Birthday Giveaway From Me to One of You

    January 31st, 2008 by neil

    In honor of the birthday that is quickly approaching (I’ll be 34 on February 7th), I’d like to kick off the Children’s Music giveaway that I keep mentioning. While I have been writing lots of music for children, I’ve also been trying to listen to a lot more kids’ music along the way. That means that I’ve come across some pretty cool albums, and I’d love to share them with you.

    This prize for this giveaway is a new copy of Dan Zanes’s Grammy-award Winning album Catch that Train:

    dan zanes catch that train

    It was seeing Dan Zanes perform this past summer that made me realize “Hey, I could do this too”. At the time I had only written one or two songs that you might call kids’ tunes, but now I have nearly an entire album’s worth (coming out sometime in mid-2008).

    Catch That Train is full of catchy classics and originals, has a multi-cultural flair, and also features guest appearances from other musicians you might recognize (e.g. Natalie Merchant from 10,000 Maniacs) . Dan would also (rightfully) call the genre of the album “Family Music” – as he believes that good music for kids should be enjoyed by the whole family. I agree completely!

    Contest Rules:

    1. Leave a comment – this will be a chance for those of you who are shy to come out of the woodwork. Make sure that you give me your real e-mail address, since that’s the only way that I can get in touch with you to let you know that you won!
    2. Link Love – the only *requirement* for entering the giveaway is to leave a comment. However, if you want to increase your chances of winning by a factor of 2(!), put up a post on your blog/site telling people about this Children’s Music giveaway, and linking back to this post (I should get an automatic ping, but if you want to let me know you did this, that’s fine too). That’s right – if you link back to this post, then I’ll enter your name twice into the random winner generator (a hat with some slips of paper).

    I will draw an entry at random on February 7th – and let you know promptly that you’ve won! A little something from me to you on my birthday.

    That’s it! There will be more giveaways here over the coming months, so stay tuned. In the meantime, a little more link love:

    My wife is ALSO having a giveaway – some really cool vintage stuff from The HappyDashery. She’s going to choose her winner on Sunday (February 3rd), so head over there pronto and enter the contest!

    Why the sudden giveaway? We were inspired by the giveaway extravaganza happening over at RocksinMyDryer – seriously, you should go check it out. There are over 590 sites participating with FREE STUFF to give away. I think that all of them also have a Sunday (Feb 3rd) deadline, so you should check them out pronto. If you’re so inclined, let them know that you heard about their giveaway here.

    Final Bit of Link Love

    There are a few sites out there that are devoted to reviewing Children’s/Family music – sorting out the good from the less-good so that you don’t have to! Plus they’re also a great way to find out about what’s happening in the world of Family-centered entertainment. The first site that I stumbled on was Zooglobble (kids music worth sharing). The most recent Zooglobble article is, ironically enough, an interview with Dan Zanes – so you can find out more about the dude before you win his CD here at NeilSattin.com. I definitely recommend Zooglobble for keeping a finger on the pulse of Children’s Music.

    And finally, just a reminder for those of you who haven’t checked it out yet, I still have a couple of the “early” tunes available for your listening pleasure on my music page. Thanks in advance for entering the giveaway, and I look forward to seeing you in the comments!




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