Comments on: Relationship Advice: How to know when to leave a relationship http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/ Getting to the Heart of Personal Development Wed, 20 Aug 2008 21:58:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: neil http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/#comment-12482 neil Tue, 27 May 2008 20:33:12 +0000 http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/#comment-12482 Hi Stella, I'm glad that my words offered you comfort and support during a tough decision. From your brief description, I get the sense that once the immediate pain subsides your partner will probably realize the wisdom of your decision. Take care, keep me posted, and yes, have faith! Hi Stella,

I’m glad that my words offered you comfort and support during a tough decision. From your brief description, I get the sense that once the immediate pain subsides your partner will probably realize the wisdom of your decision.

Take care, keep me posted, and yes, have faith!

]]> By: stella http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/#comment-12481 stella Tue, 27 May 2008 20:23:30 +0000 http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/#comment-12481 I've been in the throws of gut-wrenching agony over deciding to get my own apartment and, essentially, leave my current relationship. Today was the day I finally had to take a real step, writing that deposit check, which I've been expert at putting off for months now. I am absolutely terrified in the way that you feel when you go over a big bump in the road--like my stomach is going to fall out from the bottom of me. I still haven't told my partner, although he knows it's coming--it has been for a long time, too long. He is a dear person and I dread not being with him as much as I long to wake up alone right now. Thank you for the encouraging words--it was exactly the reminder that I needed today to have faith that even though my gut is ready to jump out of my body now, it was also warning me of danger only a couple of months into the relationship when it told me that something just wasn't right. I must trust that even though it will cause him pain, it is the most loving thing for both of us. Your words were just the ones I needed today. Thank you I’ve been in the throws of gut-wrenching agony over deciding to get my own apartment and, essentially, leave my current relationship. Today was the day I finally had to take a real step, writing that deposit check, which I’ve been expert at putting off for months now. I am absolutely terrified in the way that you feel when you go over a big bump in the road–like my stomach is going to fall out from the bottom of me. I still haven’t told my partner, although he knows it’s coming–it has been for a long time, too long. He is a dear person and I dread not being with him as much as I long to wake up alone right now. Thank you for the encouraging words–it was exactly the reminder that I needed today to have faith that even though my gut is ready to jump out of my body now, it was also warning me of danger only a couple of months into the relationship when it told me that something just wasn’t right. I must trust that even though it will cause him pain, it is the most loving thing for both of us. Your words were just the ones I needed today.

Thank you

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