Comments on: Relationship Advice: How to know when to leave a relationship http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/ Getting to the Heart of Personal Development Thu, 29 Sep 2011 17:04:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: neil http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-89719 neil Thu, 29 Sep 2011 17:02:13 +0000 http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/#comment-89719 Cilla -- best wishes for you -- I realize that I am responding a few months after the day you posted this. I hope all is well for you. I would recommend your first step, instead of hoping that there is love waiting for you, is to love yourself. Tap into that love, appreciate who you are as a personality, give thanks to your physical body for all that it has allowed to do, to experience in this world. Work on that. The more involved you get in that realm, the deeper your connection can be with others and you will find that love is waiting for you around every corner. Be wishes Cilla — best wishes for you — I realize that I am responding a few months after the day you posted this. I hope all is well for you.
I would recommend your first step, instead of hoping that there is love waiting for you, is to love yourself. Tap into that love, appreciate who you are as a personality, give thanks to your physical body for all that it has allowed to do, to experience in this world. Work on that. The more involved you get in that realm, the deeper your connection can be with others and you will find that love is waiting for you around every corner.
Be wishes

]]> By: neil http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-89716 neil Thu, 29 Sep 2011 16:59:35 +0000 http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2007/10/relationship-advice-how-to-know-when-to-leave-a-relationship/#comment-89716 Hi there, this is Neil's office assistant, Kate. Neil has multiple jobs and has very little time to respond to all of the questions/comments posted on here. It sounds like you have some things to work through and I would like to encourage you to set up a consultation with Neil. He has alot of experience and training and is a great listener and brain-stormer. I understand that the prices are not cheap but you are dealing with love and quality of life issues which are priceless. If you are interested please send an email directly to neil@neilsattin.com or kate@naturaldogblog.com to let us know your availability. You can find the payment link on Neil's website. I cannot offer much advice, especially in relation to Neil's experience, but I would like to offer this: Love is everywhere and comes in many different forms, but there is only one of you. What you have to figure out, is, is it possible for you to fulfill yourself, to have "ME" time or whatever else you need to fulfill yourself and still be involved with this person? Relationships take effort and commitment, but there is also a point where you have to take the reins and take care of yourself, that is your responsibility. Your power is your decisions and actions, and that is huge. You need to believe in this power and you have to do the leg work to appreciate yourself and take actions to follow through. It is not an easy road, but it gets easier as you get used to doing it. There is alot of confusion between "taking care of one's quality of life" and "being selfish".....I am talking about being healthy, being happy, enjoying who you are as a person and interacting with the world, not being selfish and disregarding those that are around you. You should not feel guilty about wanting to take care of yourself. I wish you the best in life and love. Please get in contact with us if you would like to schedule a consultation. Be well Kate Hi there, this is Neil’s office assistant, Kate. Neil has multiple jobs and has very little time to respond to all of the questions/comments posted on here. It sounds like you have some things to work through and I would like to encourage you to set up a consultation with Neil. He has alot of experience and training and is a great listener and brain-stormer. I understand that the prices are not cheap but you are dealing with love and quality of life issues which are priceless. If you are interested please send an email directly to neil@neilsattin.com or kate@naturaldogblog.com to let us know your availability. You can find the payment link on Neil’s website.

I cannot offer much advice, especially in relation to Neil’s experience, but I would like to offer this:
Love is everywhere and comes in many different forms, but there is only one of you. What you have to figure out, is, is it possible for you to fulfill yourself, to have “ME” time or whatever else you need to fulfill yourself and still be involved with this person? Relationships take effort and commitment, but there is also a point where you have to take the reins and take care of yourself, that is your responsibility. Your power is your decisions and actions, and that is huge. You need to believe in this power and you have to do the leg work to appreciate yourself and take actions to follow through. It is not an easy road, but it gets easier as you get used to doing it. There is alot of confusion between “taking care of one’s quality of life” and “being selfish”…..I am talking about being healthy, being happy, enjoying who you are as a person and interacting with the world, not being selfish and disregarding those that are around you. You should not feel guilty about wanting to take care of yourself.

I wish you the best in life and love.
Please get in contact with us if you would like to schedule a consultation.
Be well
Kate

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